奇书网>现代礼仪英语 > ●General Guidelines for Guests（第2页）
●General Guidelines for Guests（第2页）
◆ArriveEarly
Itissuggestedtoarriveatthechureralhomeatleast15-20minutesearly。Youshouldelyaed。Don’tsitifewrows，theyareusuallyreservedforfamilymembers。Nottositatthebackeither，uhechapelisfull。Thefamilymightfeelisolatedatthefrontandtheclergymayhavediffimakingthemselvesheard。
◆TheDressCode
&hihefirstimagethatofteomindisthatofpeopledressedinblack。Whileblackisstillthetraditionalcolorforfuhisstandardhasloosenedupiimestoiherdark，servativeg。Still，thebestwaytogoisdonningablacksuit，whiteshirt，servativetie，andwell-shinedblackshoes。
&hislife’smostsolemno，aytoputasidefortandpersooshowyourutmostrespectfortheendofalifeisinexcusable。
◆Partithey
&imesduringtheservipartiisrequestedeitherviaaprayer，hymn。Youshionanddeilyevenifyouarenireewiththechoiceofdedi。
◆BeingaPallbearer
Beingapallbearerisatraditiohefamilywilltypiehees“honorarypallbearers”—whohaveastrictlysymbolicrole—arealso）。Theinvitationtobeapallbearerisagreathonorandoneyouotrefuseexostseriousofreasons。It’slikethesomberflipsideofbeiobeagroomsman。
&hepallbearerwasoioheywerechargedwithgthetheetery。Nowtheroleisalmostentirelysymbolic。Thecasketistypicallysetdyoujustputyourhandonitasitrolls，onlyliftingitupwhenitistimetoloadandunloaditfromthehearse。
Ifyouaretobeapallbearer，etofu30minutesearlyandfindthefuor。HeShewillgivesyouinstruwhatwillbeexpectedofyather，whehedinwhichrowtosit。
Youshouldbedressedwellatafuneralanyway，butifyouareaskedtobeapallbearer，makeaolookpresentableaful。
◆DrivingintheFuneralPro
Funeralprosareohefewremaininghissociety。
&hefuneral，everyoheirdproceedasagrouptothecemetery。Thecarswillfollowbehiurnhtsandemergenkersandcloselyfollowthefrontofyou。Theprowilldrivesloeedlimit。Iries，lawsallorostodrivethrhtsandstopsigns。
Asanormaldriver，whenyoueuponafuneralpro，doyourbesttoletthempassandstaytogether。Don’ttrytotothepro。Ifsafe，pulltothesideoftheroadahelinekeepgoing。Intheolddays，mengotoutoftheirddoffedtheirhatswhilethepropassed。Probablytoodangerousohhfares，buta。
◆LeavePromptly
Thechiefmour，followedbyeveryoneelse。
■After>
Inthedaysandmonthstoe，thefamilywilluetoneedyriefgandsupportservices;callorwriteularbasis;offerhelpandrunerrahemonspecialosandholidays;iheminyoursos。
