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Ⅰ Origin of Etiquette（第1页）

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&e’siracedbacktotheearlytimeofhumanbeings。

Theesseeisthewayofdealingwiththerelationshipofhumaerunithebegioricpeoplelearobehaveinwaysthatmadelifeeasieraforoher。Gradually，theydevelopedtherulesforpropersoassofhistoricalresearchprovesthatetiquette，asaeedalongwiththehumaionsandihehabituallaureanda，sharedamongthemembersiribeduringtheprocessathering，huntingandeverydaylife，sproutedtheprimitiveetiquette。Forexample，theywouldsummontolookaftermutually，whentheyestheforestfireortheattackofthepreybeast，Fortheyofthesounitheoheprimitivepeoplebegantopayattentiontotheirappearangfigleaves，puttingonthesloioifiedstuffohingandsooherhaartedtotakecorrectbehaviortopleasetheotherpeople，keepingasuitabledistaheriivehunting，talkingrumorsaboutthegamestoprevenersfromfeelingfrustratedeveionhadgaihing。

Forthepeoplefromdiffereheylikelyadoptedsomegenerally-acguage，expressionorpostureiaintrust，fivenessaioeparty。Andallthisdeportmentwouldbesideredastheinitialformsofetiquette。Thehandshakeprinatedwhenearlymaendhisrighthand—theonhand—asasignoffriendlinessandpeace。Apersoedfhtemptyhandtoshowhewasn’tholdingaoheothermaendinghisowyhandtoshowthathealsowasuherefore，ahaheyweregoingtotalkinsteadoffight。

&ehassimilariimes，aknightinafullsuitofarmor，hehardlytalkwithafriendwhileweari，soifhewaalk，hehadtoremovethebarrier。Thevisoronakwasmuchlikeavisoronamotorcyclehelmet:itliftedup。Andwhenaknightraisedhisvisor，hishahisforehead，paralleltotheground。Asaluteindicatedraisivisor，sothattheknightcouldtalkinsteadoffight。

Makingately，isatraditiiheothersideoftheakingatoast，theglassesked，thedrinksintheglassessloshedtogetheronimpadicatedthatwhateverwasinonedrink（ps），hadnowbeeobothglasses。Ifytopoisonyourfriend，yougotsomeaswell。Thismadeitieresttoyourfrienddrinkapoisonousdrink。

Almosteveryofpractifromtheyofeachherdmember’slearainamountofsufferarolonpainofbeiorstampeddownbytheherd。Andthelawswhisocietyarevaluedbecausemostpersoyhaveseeentledealingamongallpersoy。Fairaledealiesgoodmanners;aeis，afterall，onlytheiousappliahomeorabroad。

&maheworldrootiednessaice，bothofwhidusideratiohefirstimpoliteindisofsusiderationmightbeshownbynotsnataweakerbrother;moresophisticatedly，bynotleaninginaneasychairwhiletheagedwerestanding;nadisagreeablestoryattheexpenseofashyfriend;nofffihefrontoftheshabbilydressed。Itisthiswhichteachesustoreplyaninvitationquicklythatourhostessmayksheistoing;andkeepsusfrourappoihelastmomentunlessforabsolutelysuffitreasowouldbedisappointingtements。

Thegoodmannerswhichrisesfromfualfinenessofsoulisinsisteduponandmakesusfeelthattobeimpoliteis，perhaps，themivableoffaultsbecauseithassolittletoexcivilizedlife，peopleshouldbepoliteeveheyareangry，andtheyneedefulwheopleasethemohowmuchtroubletheygive。

&ender”isdefinedas“ottohurt”iionary，andthisisthebasisofbeingcultivated;thatis，weshouldbecautioustorespecttherightsahersandnottoharmtheirfeelings，tastes，orprejudioteveablelittlevanitieswhichmakethemwhattheyare;thatis，uualwelfareisthreatenedbyourwithholdiheetiquetteaccordedtootherpointsofviewisofapersoio。Ifwearetoexisteasilyinss，wehadbettergiveothersthetolerafromthem。