Ⅵ。TelephoneManners
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Themannerinspeakielephoasimportantasintalkingtopeoplefaahelackofbasieetiquettebothinpersonalandprofessionalcalls。Telephoeprovidesustheproperwaytofunpolitelytogetheriy,eliminatingfrustrationanduniishaps。However,telephoewouldnotworkbestunlesseveryoherules。
■Basianners
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◇Giveyournamewhenplagacall。Thegameof“guesswhothisis”maynotplaywelltoabusyfriend。
◇Trytomakeyourcallshortandinformativewheoanyonewh。
◇Toavoiddialingawrongnumberandihers,makesuretodialcarefullyandiing。
■MakingTelephoneCalls
You’dbetterthinkaboutwhattimeitis,ho’simpoliteandintrusivethatpersonmaybeasleep,suchasbefore7:0,orafter9:00to10:00intheevenioavoidcallsaroundtheusualperiodmostpeoplewillbehavingmeals。Courtesyisexpeusielephoasifyfacetoface。
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■AheTelephone
Usuallywesay“hello”toaelephonecall,while“yes”isadimproperrespohephonedrawaveryqui,thinkingofthatpersonasaloofanddhesitatetounicatereadily。
&ishehouseerthephonecall。Ifthecallerasks,“mayIspeaktoMr。。。。please,”thereplayshouldbe,“oplease,Iwillgethimforyou。”Iftheheadofthehouseisnotavailable,theresponseshouldbe“Iamsorry,Mr。。。。isnotavailableatthistime。MayItakeamessage?”Youusedifferentformsofrespooshoodmanners,whicharealsoarefleofyourpolitehoughtfulhepersonmaybegtoofferahgreatpayas,who’stoknoouldheshethiothequestion“isMr。。。。homeplease”t“no”。Thisresponsewouldrefleegativelyoualpersonbeingcalled。