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●General Rules of Manners in Public Place（第1页）

●GeneralRulesofMannersinPublicPlace

&peoplehavedifferentideasofwhatbehaviorisacceptable，tastefuland“normal”whenwanderingaboutinpublicplaces，that’swhytherehavetobesocialrulesofetiquetteregardingbehaviorinpublicetherearesomaideasofwhatisrightandwrong，guidelineseneralruleshaveevolvedsoastoallaloingpeaamixedworldideas。Butuhedowoguidelinesatherewillalwaysbesomeoneangryorupseteitherbecausetheyaredisturbedbythewordsorasofothers，orbecausetheyfeeltheyshouldhavetherighttosayordoastheywishinpublic。That’swherethefollowinglistoffiverulesofetiquetteonhoubliesin。Therulesbelowfollowonseoothersasyouwouldhavethemdountoyou。Or，perhapsmoreaptly，trynottobotherothersaheywon’tbotheryou。

■General

Wheninpublieral”ruleistrytobehaveinwaysthatmostwouldstrueassympathetictowardsthefeeliysimplereally，butquiteoftenignored。

■Noise

Wheninpubliberthatthehthusiasticasyouarewiththenoiseyeing，suchasarguing，speakingloverexuberantly，playingmusiconyoure。Itistruethatweallhavetherighttodothesethings，butitdoesyoualsohavetherighttoighepeaceofothers。Anyadisturbingtheambienceofaparticularpublicplacewouldgenerallybesideredoutsidewhatisrightthingtodo。So，trytolowerdownyourvoidstopbellylaughimovies。Donotmakeahefrontyard。Theseareomostofusizewhenit。

■Odors

Peopleareseoodors。Odorsgemoodandcausephysicalreaepeople。So，trytokeepyourodorstoyourselfwheninpublidthisincludesbodyodors，perfumesandes。Alsosiderthesmellofcigarettesmokeandhowusomemayfindit。Finally，detthesmellofthefoodyoumaycookoreat。Noteveryohesameprefereerruptingsomeone’speaentofbeinginpublicwithyouradiaphorousaybegdisfort。

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Inotherwords，howdoyoudressordoyourhair，ordisplaycleavageortattoosorotherpartofyourbody。Thesethingsallaffeetimesiiveways。Forinstanepeoplesiderwearingrevealingclothesasoffehedisplayoftattoosvulgar。Thepoiaboutrepressio’sabyourchonothersandperhapsmodifyiio’salljustsomethingtothinkaboutinpublic。

■Behavior

Itisnodoubtthatwhatyoudowhileoutinpublicwillaffectothers。Youwillbebarelynoticedifyoubehaveinapolitemanner，whileyoumightbeeireinthosearoundyouifyouareswearingrostthesidesofbuildings。It’safactthathowyoubehaveoutwhereothersbearwitnessshouldbedifferentfromhowyoubehaveintheprivacyofyourowbehaveinannoyingorscarysmilingatothersinlineorharassespeopleo。Bekianeeded。Inshort，trytobehaveasifyourmotherwerewatg。

Theaboverulesofetiquettedprobablyshouldbefollowedbyprettymudeveryogoesoutintothepublicpartsofourworld。Wehopeyouwillrememberandfollowtherulesasyoureadthem。Doingsowillnotonlyallowthosearoundyoutoincivilizedways，butwilllikelycauseyou，yourselftobehappiertooasitfreesyoufromthethatquiteoftenariseswheadheretothesesimplerules。

■TipsforPublicBehavior

&heGoldenRuleinyourmind:“Dountoothersasyouwouldhavethemdountoyou。”

◇Don’tpoint，laugh，ormakefacesatpediffere，hair，etc。）Ifitissomethingyouwouldn’twaohear，theoyourself。

◇Chhtversationtopics，avoiddirtywordsandtalkingaboutthebodyfundsuch。Asageisnotappropriateforachildrepeat，don’tsayit。

◇Keepyourareadaables，throwawayrubbish，aleevideyouwerethereaspossible。

◇Say“excuseme”ahepersonwhoisbeingdisruptivetotodown。Don’tplainabouthisherbehaviobnoxiouswhenyoudothat。

◇Wheoadults，addressthemby“sir”or“ma’am。”Allease”，“thankyou”and“you’rewele”。

◇Besiderateivepeopletheirpersonalspace。Holdopendoorsforpeople。Allowtheelderly，preghosewithsmallaheadofyouiherestroom。Itisahardfortheelderlyawomentotroltheirbladder，anditisoftehechildsayshesheogotothebathroom。

&heelectritatalowvolume。Poweroffyoureorturnitonvibrateinlibrariesaers。Useearphoeningtomusicsothatotherpeoplewillurbed。Makesuretheringmusigisappropriateifyoudokeepyoureringeron。

◇Everybodymakesmistakes。Doyetthebestofyou。Ifyoumessupandwheed，simplyapologizeandworktyourmistakes。

◇Behaveasifyourmotheristherewatg。

◇Dohesmallthings。Noo，lifeistetupsetthatg。