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●TalkingListeningMingling（第1页）

●Talking，Listening，Mingling

Furthermhowtouhpeopleatapartyorothersotsisthemarkuestwho’salwaysinvitedback。Aguest’sgoodmannersorpartyetiquetteinowinghowtoopenupaversationandpartione。Youshouldrealizehowtobepatientand;beagoodlistener。Ahinkaboutleisaskingandrespondappropriately，justasyouosideraboutwhatyouressitclearly。

Noteveryourallysocialbutterfly;justdon’tshyawayfromversatiohisformofuni’tihefollowingtipsandadoseofbemixingandminglinginnotime:

◇ThinkaboutOtherPeopleandBeedwithThem:Ifyou’reshyorquiet，learnhowtoinitiateaversationwithothersandnotalwayswaitforthemtodrawyouintoit。Ifyou’reaagoing，youmayoreinihusiasmaherpeoplehavethefloor。

◇BehaveasifYou’reaHost，closetopeoplestandihewhite-knukers，orthosewholookobviouslyunfortable。Ioeachother。Behelpful，kind，gradgebeshytoapproachpeersareonlyfriendsyouhave。Ifyoupayyourattentioherperson’sfort，youloseyourownself-ess。

&，Joyful，andOptimistimingling，yourmoodis:Ifyou’vehadabadday，don’trainonanyoneelse’sparadebytalkingabativeexperienless，ofcourse，youwaandiwayyoushoulddoistoshakeoffthebadmood，smileandpartiit。Whenendiion，saythatyouealkingwiththepersonorthatiteriehimher。

◇TobeaGoodListeaBusyTalker:Youhavetwoearsah。Usethemproperly。Nothieringthaeientandshowssiialking。

◇KnowHowtoEioisperfeetosimplysay，“Excuseme，ithasbeeingyou”or“I’veenjoyedourversation。”Thenvisiblymovetosomeotherpartoftheroom。

◇AvoidMakiiveents:Oheroom，theguestsoryourhost:Inanysocialsituation，itisrudetomakes，especiallywheinsomeone’shome。Youneverknowifaoverhearyourents。Ahepersonholdiywillhavesomeoomaketheaniails，andyoucouldbespeakingwithsomeohtheevent。

◇ToEraoaversation:Fiopic:travel，orpets（ifyoubothhavethem），hobbies，ewstopics（preferablynothingtroversial），sports，careers，films，andbooksareallsomeoopiterest。

◇AvoidaypeofTalk:Avoidaalk，suchasphysijuries，ats，siessoreorjokes。Also，itisrudetoe’shome，de，orfoffensiveguptroversialsubjectsthatakeothersunfry。Keepyourmouthincheck!