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●When Youre the Guest（第1页）

●WheheGuest

Al（whichisrepondezs’ilvousplaitinFrench，“reply，ifyouplease”）toaninvitatiardlessofwhetheryouwillbeattendingornot。Holdingasuccessfulpartyneedsagooddealofplanning;kalnumberofpeoplewhowillbeattendingiscrucialtoproperpartyplanning。RSVPasearlyaspossibleaelybeforetheduedateoion。Delayingyourresponsewillmakethehostfeelasifyforabetteropportunity。ItisrudetoRSVPaftertheduedateonaninvitation。

IfyouRSVPthatyouwillbeatteyandlaterfindoutthatyouakeit，makesuretotellthehostpromptly。It’sbettertoletthehostkhayouotattey。

Dueststhatareheparty。additiosifyouhavethepermissio。Ifyouareioaweddiionstates“youa”，assumethatnootherpeople，ingyour，areinvited。UionofficiallystatedtheirRSVPforotherpeopleinyourparty。It’simpryourclosestfrieywithoutthepermissio。

Doeataparty。Althoughpeopleoftendohefirstoaparty，youshouldtrytoarriveatthetimeiheinvitation。Thisisa“must”formoreformaleventslikeshs，anniversaryparties，etc。Arrivaltimeisalittlemorelaxwithmorecasualgatherings。Hifeelstoioapartythatshouldstartat7:00p。m。andnooneshowsupuntil8:00。Thatist。

Dooffehehostotspedealoftimewithyou。Yourhosthasahomefullofguests;don’ttrytomoime。

Waitforyourhosttoofferatourofyourhost’shome。Don’taskdirectly。

Ifyouareioaweddingpartyandyouotattend，youshouldstillsendagift。Aweddinggiftshouldbegiveheactualdateoftheossible。Don’tsendyifttoolate。Rememberitisgiveheweddiagivingaweddinggiftisutterlyuable。

Iftheinvitationdidnotis”，yahostgiftifyoulike。Doyourhostopeo，astheywillbepreoccupiedwithmahings。

Don’tmakeyourselftoofortableinyourhost’shome。Thismeans，don’tthumbthroughbooks（uheyareoable），don’ttakeawayherCDorDVDs，andyoudois，drawersormediets。

Don’tleaveyourcups，bottles，plates，napkinselyingaroundanddon’tplacecupslassesonfuracoaster。Usually，therearetrashreceptaclesattheparty。Putyewhereitbeloyourhost’shomeasyouwouldlikegueststotreatyourown。

Ifyoustaylateataparty，offertohelpup。Doyourhostwantsyourhelp，anddon’ttoucesthatdooyou。

Wheheparty，yourhostshouldsendyouofftothedoor。Doihyversationwhenyasitisprobablythatthereareuestswhoeo。