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●Selfintroduce（第1页）

●Self-introduce

Yousimplystartwith“Hello。Myy”or“I’mBetty（orSallyChurchill）”or“I’dliketointroducemyself。I’mBetty”tointroduceyourselftoanewperson。Ahahyournameisacceptableinagroup。

Peopleyoudon’tkabig，amrers。Althoughinagrouptheymightseemasanimposingsolidbrickwall，itmaybebetterifyardacrowdasawallofindividualwindowsthateaofferyouadifferentviewoflife。Everodubeapleasure，ifyoufollowthesmallstrategiesandmanytipsedinthisbook。

lewhenyouintroduceyourselfbysayingyourowroduceyourselfasHelenFieldorHeleherpeoplers。Field。Butifwhooknowhowtocallyou，youtroduceyourselfasAuntHelenrandmaHelenifyouwaocallyouthat。

Ifyouareateaayintroduceyourselftothestudentswiththetitleyouwouldlikethemtmanman，forexample，butyoushouldwriteyourwholeheboard:SimonLongman。Aninversesrainsprofessorsfromiheirtitlesintointrodus（“Hello，I’mSimonLongman。”）iualcircles，thoughothersmayaddthetitles（“Hellman。”）。

Youwillbeonsafegroundifyouaddressbothdretiredambassadorial，military，judidclericalpeoplebytheirprofessions（AmbassadorBrowh，Justi，ReverendBrown，FatherBrown）or“ma’am”orsimply“sir”untilyouareverysureofprototheirworlds。Ifyouarenotsure，ask。

Youmayhopetoexpandonyourintroduwithpleasantriessuieetyou”，“Goodtoseeyou”or“oseeyouagain”afteryouhavesaidhelloandyourname。

Dettomakeeyedoffertoshakehandswhenyiyournameclearlyforyournewace，ifyourintrledyourname。

Ifyouareuheotherpersohenameagainasyousaysomethingalongthelinesof“you”，withaninquiriolethimhercorrectwhatyouthihehtrepeathisherfirststhtonafirst-namebasis。

&hepersoname（e。g。，Mr。Brown）untilyouareiobeonafirst-namebasis，oherpersonhasintroducedhimselfherself。

Say“Hello。Mynameis______。”toreintroduceyourselftoabriefformerace（ifyetthepersohepersonwillmostlikelyrespondwithhisherifheshedoesn’t，yousay“Youmaynotrememberme;I’mSimon。”Or“Irememberyou，butI’vefottenyourname。”Alwaysreintroduceyourselftoyoung，becausetheymayhavealreadyfottenwhieofgrown-upsyouareiervalsiheysa

Ifyouwanttointroduceyourselftotheseniororsomeohgreaterstatus，simplyuseg，Sir。MynameisSimonLongman;I’myourwife’sstudent。”

Payattentiontothepersonwhohasmadetheefforttointroducehimselfherselftoyou，ifyouarethepersonwithhigherstatus。Youshouldalsouseyourbestmannersandbecivilized。Doaseeminglyunimportaurnyouintoasnreatmascrueltybybeingunciviltoapersous。Giveeveryouleastthreeminutesofyourtimeaion。Bekind。

Thefollowiipsforself-introdu:

◇Lookpehtintheeyes。Eyetaportashowsyourdself-with“I’dliketointroducemyself”iohavetheotherpersoionwhenyousayyourname。

◇Smile。Keepismile（ahtoo）isalsoimportant。Smileiskindoficebreaker;itmakesyoulooklikeahappy，stablepersonanddrawspeopletoyou。

◇Handshake。Afirmhandshake，on，revealsyourself-ce。Butmakesurethatyoudoherperson’sarmorhand（trysqueezingslightlywithyersratherthanyourthumb）。Youwilldefinitelygainyourcethroughasqueezeandtrolhandshake。

◇Sayyourfullnameaelyaskingforothers’。TheheirnameswhilesayiyouJohn”or“It’sapleasuretomeetytheperson’snamewillhelpyourememberhishernameandagain，andwillshowyourcare，too。Haveagreatversation。Makesureyouintroduceyourfullname。

◇GivinganiameisabsolutelyOK，butitisinappropriatetosayyournameisyourniame。Ifyousideritajoke，itisanawkwardone。Alwaysgive’saniame，i。e。“Myname’sJack，buttheycallme‘Gorilla’”。

◇Tellingalittlebitrouostartyourversation。

◇Iiettotalkontopiwhichtheotherpersoedin。Butav。Youmaytellyourpositives，butdon’ttellyativesunlessyouareaskedto。

◇trateonthepers—givethemtherespectyouwouldliketoreceive。

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