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■eseSodCulture
&anceof“Face”
&of“face”isroughlytraoodreputatioherearefourtypesof“face”:
◇Diu-mian-zi:itreferstotheexposureofoioopeople。
◇Gei-mian-zi:itdehegivihersbyshowi。
◇Liu-mian-zi:thisiswheoavoidmistakesandshowwisdomina。
◇Jiang-mian-zi:thisiswhenfacreasedthroughothers’endation。
Itisveryimportantforyounottolosefaceorcausethelossoffaceatalltimes。
◆ism
ismisasystemofbehaviorsahatemphasizethedutiesofpeopletowardsohebasisoftheirrelationship。Thebasiciplesarefoundeduponfivediffereionships:rulersas;husbandasahersandsisters;friendsandfriends。
ismputemphasisonobligatioy，loyalty，honor，filialpiety，respectfeay。Throughkeepingharmoionsasindividuals，societyitselfbeesstable。
◆Collectivismvs。Individualism
&heeseareacollectivesociety，whichhaveaneedfroupaffiliatioheirfamily，schteam，ortry。Iokeepasenseofharmony，theywillalwaysbehavewithdeandwillnotdoanythingtomakesomeoneelsefeelembarrassedinpublic。Theirownfeelingsarealwayslessimportantthanthegoodofthegroup。Thisisofteheuseofsileuredmeetings。Ifsomeoagreewithersonsays，ratherthanopposepublicly，theperso。Thisgivesfacetotheotherperson，ubliakebothpartiesloseface。
◆Non-verbaluni
Theon-verbalunispeaksvolumes。Siheeseseekharmonyandhaveaneedfroupaffiliation，theydependonfacialexpression，toneofvoidposturetotellthemwhatsomeonefeels。Frowningwhilesomeoneisspeakingisthoughttobeasignofdisagreement。Therefore，mostesejustdon’tshowaioisregardedill-maareintoanotherperson’seyes。Iionstheesetrytokeepawayfromeyetacttogivethemselvesprivacy。
■eseEtiquetteands
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&ingsareformalandalwaysgreettheoldestpersonfirst。
&withfnersishandshakes。
&ingsomeonemanyesewilllround。
◇Useanhonorifidthesuroaddressthepersoogeitintoafirst-heywilladviseyouwhiametouse。
◇Theesehaveaverygoodsenseofhumor。Theyarewillingtolaughatthemselvesiftheyhaveacloserelationshipwiththeotherpersoolaughatyourselfuheproperces。
◆GiftGivie
◇UsuallypeopleexgegiftsatewYear，weddings，birthsaly（bearketing），birthdays。
◇Theeselikefoodandanicefoodbasketwillbea。
◇Donotgivescissors，khergutensilsastheysignaltheendiionship。
◇Donotgiveclodkerchiefsorstrawsandalsastheyarerelatedwithfuneralsah。
◇Donotsendflowers，asmathesewithfunerals。
◇Donotresentsinwhite，blueorblackpaper。
◇Fourisanevilnumbersodonotsendfourofaheluumber，sogiviofsomethingbringslucktothereceiver。
◇Alresentswitht>
◇Giftsarenotopenedwhenreceived。
◇Giftsmaybedeedthreetimesbeforetheyareaccepted。
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