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●Roles and Duties（第1页）

●RolesandDuties

&ruletorememberaboutweddieisneversayordoanythingthatmightleadtoeveestpoteheweddingissurrouradition，manyofwhichhavebeenfottenorreplae。Thispartispiledtoillustratetheexpectedprotosituation，bothtraditionallyandlicable。

■TheBride

Tonearlyallthewomen，theweddingdayisthemostimportantdayintheirlife。Itisthedaywhere，asthebride，sheisrightfullythe“staroftheshow’。Sheisiheanizationofherdayfromstarttofinish。Shewouldusuallybeginplanningmonthsinadvahedayitself。Sheateindeakingioftheweddingplanning，fromthedresstotheflowers，thecake，thetypeanddateofuchmore!Theabilitytahersisausefulteiqueduringplanning。Detthattheweddingisalsoabigdayforbothsetsofpareswillundoubtedly，appreysultationandtheiradvicesmayprovebenefitually，thecouplehavethefinalsayondeaking。

Thebrideandthegroomwouldalsuestsatthere。

■TheGroom

trarytopopularbelief，thegroom’sraweddiendsfarbeyonddegwhattowearatthestagpartyaangratulatorydriisasmallmatterofaodbuy。Hehasthejointresponsibilityinthemajordes，suchasthechoiceofweddiion，photographerandvenue。Histributionressureoffhisbride-to-be。Then，withthehelpofhisparents，heshouldpiletheguestlistforboththeyaion，whichwouldbepresehebride’smotherafterbeingfinalized。

Ontheweddingday，thegroomamanshouldarriveattheweddi20mihey。Hetheaisle，followingthesignier，withhisnewwifeoobegintheformalphotographs。Thenit’soiohebrideandgrreettheirguestsastheyarrive。Thegroomisexpetroduewbridetorelativesandfriendswhohaveherpreviously。Followingthebride’sfather’sspeech，thegroomshouldthankthebride’sparentsforhis“newbride”—andallthoseiheanizationofthewedding。Thespeechshoulditothebridesmaids。Afterthespeedgofthecake，it’stimeforthefirstdaionally，thegroomshouldihebride’smothertodahebride’sfatherwouldthentakeover，allowiodahhisbride。

&ManandBridesmaids

Theroleofthebestmanistrthey。Itisapositionofhugeresponsibility，whichshouldnotbeofferedhtly。Thebestman’sdutiesinclude:issuingofordersaingwiththeweddiransportfromtheytothere;guests’transpemeionofweddis;makimahere;readingoutanytelegramsandmessages;“breakingdownbarriers”amooeymovesintofullswing;arraagparty;ac。

Thechiefbridesmaid（usuallythebride’ssisterorbestfriend）hasasupproletothebrideinmuchthesamewayasthebestmahegroom—butwillnotmakeaspeech。Herdutyistoassistthebrideiingdressedbeforeahey。Sheholdsthebridalbtheyandisresponsibleftheotherbridesmaids。Shewillbeesthechurchbythebestman。

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Traditionally，thebride’sparentswere“privileged”topayforthemajorityoftheweddingcost。Althoughtodaytheaybedistributedamosofparentsahemselves，therearestillsomeotherrespohebride’sparents。Thebride’smotherhasacrucialroleinsupphterreparations。Sheshouldlistentoahebride’swishesateverystage，evenifthesewishesdon’tmat。

&raditiohepareocarryout。Otedobligationofthebride’spareheweddingexpehasbeonthatthegroom’sparentsmakeasiderablefinantributioisgoodmaosulttheparentsofthegroomaheminasmuchoftheplanningaspossible。

■ThePage-boysandFlirls

Flirlsmaywalkinfrontofthebride，sgfettiorpetalsdowheyalsocarryposies，anddistributetotheguestswhiletheyattendingthepro。

Traditionally，thepageboysarerespoocarrythelongbridaltrain。Theymayalsocarrytherings，ona，tothealtar。