●Seati
Atadiherearemanythingsthatyou’llhinkaboutbesidesthemenu。Animportaiuestsshouldsit,asthiscoulddecidewhetherornuestsenjoythemselvesorworksuccessfully。Therearesomebasicrulestoguideyourde。
◇Askguestsofhonortositinorder。Ifyouiofhonor,forinstance,aboss,aive,avisitihereareetiquetterulesregardiing。
◇Trytomakethepeoplewhohaveoogether。Thisisthemostusefulstartingpoint。
◇Ingeneral,youshouldtrytoseatfamiliestogetherandwuestogether。Butifyoukgetalong,tryhemtogether。Itiswtraditiontohaveapressurefreeevent。
◇Avoidguestsofmixishouldsitwiththeirparents。Oldersitwiththeirparentsoroher。
◇Tryhepeoplewhodon’tfitoablestogether。Itisprobablybettertoseparatesuchguestsevenly。
◇Afemaleguestofhonorisusuallyseatedhtsideofthehost,whileamaleguestofhonorisusuallyseatedhtsideofthehostess。
◇Trytoseatevennumbersofmalesaable。Itisatraditioemale-female-male-femaleguestsiures。Somebusinessdiedmale-male-female-femaleforvariety。
◇Trytoavoidseatihesametableasex-partners,unlessyouaresurethisisOK。Keepinmindthatthereare4everyroom。
◇Iftherearespees,makesurethepeoplegiviseatedwiththeirbaganyone。
◇Trytnant,elderlyasahsmallwheretheysaherfacilitiestly。Doattablesthataregoiakenaaceafterthedinner。
&swillgenerallyhavepandvision。Trytoseatthemwheretheydhearasitthemoloudmusic,theyreciateit。Place’stablesifavorablelos,theyhavebetterhearingandwoerestinthespeey>
Asforthetablelayoutitwillbedetermiheshapeofthetablesyourvenuesuppliesaablesarebestarraomaketheroomlookbalahenumberofgueststobeseated。Therearemainlyroundtablesaangulartables。Thefiguresbelowgiveyouasketchyideaofthevenuesizerequired,agtothenumberofguestsaypeofseating。
Thebasicipleoftablearraoofferoppositeeothehostsasofhonor。Iftherearetwohosts,youshouldsiderseatioppositeeablesothatyoucatertuest。Alternatively,youcouldasktheguestofhonortositattheoppositee—afemaleguestofhonorcouldsitoppositethefemalehostaofhonorcouldsitoppositethemalehhostbeseatedamidtherestofthegrouporheguestofhohehostsshouldtrytostayapartasitisthehosts’dutytuestsarehappy。
◇DinnerProcedure
Thereareseveralaspectsofdiffereweenesedinneraaldinner,whierprocedure,way,structureofdishesetally,theprocedureofOtaldinnerisasfollows:
&arter:UsuallyOtalappetizerisassortedcolddishes。Maisiables,fruits,seafoodormeat。
&ismostusuallyeatenwiththehands,orsometimeswithaknifeandfork。Itbeeatehanother,usuallylesspactfood。Breadmaybeputintoaliquid(suchasgravy,oliveoil,orsardié),orservetoenynumberofvarietiesofmeat,cheese,vegetablesorentstomaketheubiquitoussandwich。
◇Soup:Traditionally,soupisdividedintories—clearsoupandthicksoup。Thedibeginuntilthesoupisserved。Whesoup,remembertomoveitgentlyoonorsimplywaittoletyoursoupcool。
◇Mainaihespearydishiainingseveralcourses。Themaincourseisusuallytheheaviest,heartiest,andmostplexorsubstantialdishonamenu。Usuallymeatorfishisthemai;iariahemaiimestriestobeameatcourse。Forthosereasonsthemaiimescalledthe“meatcourse”。Themosttypicoursewouldbefilletbeefororfish。
&s:Dessertistypicallyservedattheendofameal,usuallygsweetfoodsuchascakes,ice-cream,fruits,butsometimesastrongly-flavoredone,suecheeses。
◇Hes:Heisservedafterthetableiscleared,suchascoffee,blacktea,hotchocolate,etc。Thisisnormallytheverylastcourse。