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Ⅳ Guidelines for Modern International Etiquette（第1页）

Ⅳ。GuidelinesforModerioe

Withtheadvasofsdhealthcare，weareallowedtolivealifeeasierthaneverbefore。However，wehavealsotosustainsubstantialpressurewhisuesfromthesharpincreaseofpopulatioifiovation，rampaactivitiesandall-pervasivenewsaswellasaredefinitionofthefamily。Itisthepressuresofthemoderleadstothedegeionofpeople’sbehaviorwhiberevealedfromtheriseofcrimes。

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Noleadjusttheirbehaviorinacewithdifferentosais，hebasitsofmanners，i。e。agnanimityaswellasmaenormsremainunged，whichwillbetterguideusinsotera。Flexibleasmannersmaybe，themainprinannershavebeenassolidasbedrock—respesideratioy，graess，anddeference。

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&ingapersoyouaowledgehishervalueasahumanbeiivein，raceiofulpersonwouldtreatasalesman，awaiteroraantequally。Respectisdemonstratedinourday-to-dayrelatifrombelittliheiropinionsandideas，refusingtolaughatsexistorracistjokes，puttingprejudicesaside，andstayingopen-minded。

Equalimportanceshouldbeattachedtoself-respect。Aself-respe，insteadofbloatinghimself，feelstabouthimselfaialsinothers。HeSheputsreputatiopladbelievesinhimselfherselfforhesheknowswherehisherstrengthlies。

■sideration

Thoughtfulnessandkindnessarefoldedintosiderationforotherpeople。TheGoldeoothersasyouwouldhavethemdountoyou—fullyembodiesthespiritofsideration。Thoughtfulhinkingaboutwhatyoudotoputpeopleatease，whilekindnessismoreaboutagihesequalitiesleadustohelpothersheyarefriendsers，tobestowatokeooffersincerepraise。

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Atactfulpersoruthtoahoutengenderingawkwardnessordisfort。Toputitaactpathyahoy:“Ibetyoulookbetterihingsuit”ishobathingsuitmakesyoulookfat”maybeequallytruebutcausesupsetandannoyance。

■Graess

Beinggraeanstohandlevariousosinageousandposedfashion，whileshowingdeferenbeaseasyasremoviinaplaceofworship。

Graessbedemonstratedinsoteras—refrainingfromdemeaningothersapeopleinfrasetsyournameduringanintrodudyousay，“Oh，nevermind!I’malwaysatalosswhenItrytoremembernames。”“Grace”isdefinedas“goodwill;favhtfulowardothers”;and“aseisrightandproper”indiariesaetthat“gracious”istheadjeofit。I，graceisaqualitythatweshouldstrivetoachieve。

■Deference

Defereoone’sapprovalofapersosaesiesshouldbeobservedlikestandingersoersaroom，givingaseheheadseatatacetable，ahuresbytheirtitlesandlastnames（uheyspecificallyrequestotherwise）。Deferringpolitelyrevealsthepositiveattitudetowardtheotherpeople’sats。