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第9章 生活的真谛（第2页）

最重要的是，它是关于你的生活使他人的心灵受到触动还是毒害，这样你的心不再独自悲欢。

只要你选择了触动他人的心灵，这些选择便是生活的全部。

Lifeisn'taboutkeepingscore。

It'snotabouthowmanyfriendsyouhaveorhotedyouare。

Notaboutifyouhaveplansthisweekendorifyou'realone。

Itisn'taboutwhoy，whoyouusedtodate，holeyou'vedated，orifyouhaven'tbeenwithaall。

Itisn'taboutwhoyouhavekissed。

It'snotaboutsex。

Itisn'taboutwhoyourfamilyisorhowmueytheyhave。

Orwhatkindofcaryoudrive。

Orwhereyouaresenttoschool。

It'snotabouthowbeautifullyyouare。

Orwhatclothesyouwear，whatshoesyouhaveon，orwhatkindofmusicyoulistento。

It'snotaboutifyourhairisblonde，red，black，orbrownorifyourskinistoolightortoodark。

Notaboutwhatgradesyouget，howsmartyouare，howsmarteverybodyelsethinksyouare，orhowsmartstassayyouare。

It'snotabyourwholebeingonapieceofpaperandseeingwhowill"acceptthewrittenyou"。Lifejustisn't。

But，lifeisaboutwhoyouloveandwhoyouhurt。

It'saboutyorunhappypurposefully。

It'saboutkeepirust。

It'saboutfriendship，usedasasanctityora>

It'saboutwhatyousayandwhatyoumeaful，maybeheartening。

It'sabrumorsandtributiygossip。

It'saboutwhatjudgmentsyoupassandwhy。Andwhmeo。

It'saboutwhoyou'veighfulldiion。

It'saboutjealnorandrevenge。

It'sabieaingitgroreadingit。

Butmostofall，it'saboutusingyourlifetotouchorpoisonotherpeople'sheartsinsuchawaythatcouldhaveneveroccurredalone。

Onlyyouchoosethewaythoseheartsareaffedthosechoicesarewhatlife'sallabout。