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第33章 通往成功的第一步 5（第2页）

领导能力是可以通过学习获得的，这一观点与人们普遍认为的有所不同。

青年时期是开始培养领导品质的黄金时期。

Howyouliveyourteenyearsrofoundimpatherestofyourlife。

haveanimpa：对于……有影响；对……造成冲击

trarytopopularopinion，leadershipissomethingthatislearned。

traryto：与……相反；违反

让教训不要重复出现

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Haveyoueverlessoorepeatthemselves？Doesitseemasifyoumarriedordatedthesamepersoimesibodieswithdifferentnames？Haveyouruypeofbossoverandain？Ifyoudon'tdealwellwithauthuresathome，thenyouortuhemoutintheworld。Youwilluallydrawintoyourlifepeoplewhooey，andyouwillstrugglewiththemuntilyoulearnthelessonofobedience。

Youwilluallyattractthesamelessonintoyourlife。Youwillalsodrawtoyourteacherstoteachyouthatlessonuntilyougetitright。Youmaytrytoavoidthesituation，buttheywilleventuallycatchupwithyou。Theonlywayyoufreeyourselfofdifficultpatternsaeisbyshiftiivesothatyerhelessonsthattheyoffer。Tofacethesegesmeaoacceptthefaethingwithinyoukeepsdrawingyoutothesamekindofpersohoughthatsituatioionshipmaybeverypainful。

Thege，therefore，istoidentifyaernsthaty。Thisisask，simeansyouhavetodgeisnotalwayseasy。Stayingjustasyouaremaynothelpyouadvaually，butitlyisfortableinitsfamiliarity。

Risingtothegeofidentifyingandreleasingyourpatteroadmitthatthewayyouhavebeendoingthingsisn&#。Thegoodhatbyidentifyihepattern，youactuallylearnhowtoordertofacilitateyourprocessofge，youwillhelessonsofwillingnessandpatieerthese，youwillmostlikelyfindthegeofidentifyingandreleasingyourpatterimidating。

Therealsecrettobeiogeisthewilliodoso。Ifyouaretomakeanyprogressiihecyclesthatentrapyou，youmustfirstideeruyoutoreleasetheoldbehaviors。

Ifyoutrulywanttoge，youwillchoosetodoit，amenttotheprocessofit。However，ifyourelyothatyoushouldakethedetodosoandthenyouwillfeelthepinchofsacrifice。Followitrends，theadviceoffriends，orthewishesoffamilymembersresultinde；followingyouinnerpassresultsinchoice。

Sowherugglingtomakeayourlife，askyourself，"HowwillingamI，really，tomakethisge？"Ifyouarehere'sagoodayberelyingoyoushouldge，ratherthanonyourintriodoso。

&hedisplayoftolerainganoute。Youarepresehelessohemomentyoutrytocreateagewithinyourself。Youexpectimmediateresultsaendisappointedwhenyourfirstfetstofhfallshort。Wherytoloseweighttheirdiets，theygetveryfrustratedwiththemselvesfornotbeiaywiththeiringregimeahemselvesfornotgtheirpatterns。

Asyoualreadyknow，geisrarelyeasy，aentlenessahyourselfasyouworkyourwaythroughthisprocess。Growthbeaslorodpatiencewillprovideyouwiththestamiobeethepersonyouwanttobe。

Ifyouabsolutelyhategettingstutrafficesarethatyouleworkiiend，cesare，yetstumoretrafficjamsthansomeonewhohasiesimplybecausetheuniversehasasenseofhumor。Yousilljustrafficmorethansomeoneatience。

Remember，alessoedujusttakesalittlepatience。

你是否曾注意到，生活中的教训总是重复出现。这看起来是不是就像与你结婚或多次约会的始终是同一个人，只不过是身材和名字不同罢了呢？你是否曾多次遇到类型相似的老板呢？如果你无法同家中的掌权者处理好关系，那么，你在外面的世界同样会遇到这种状况。你的生活会不断地陷入强权者的控制中，而且，你会一直与之对抗，直到学会服从为止。