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第41章 通往成功的第一步 13（第2页）

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&imeyouchoosetotrustyourselfaion。

&ion：采取行动；提出诉讼；开始起作用

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&hemostimportantattributesanindividualhaveisfidenvaluableineveryareaoflife，butinbusinessorinagaisabsolutelyessential。Uherearefewplagotolearialskill。Yet，itisaskilland，assubedevelopedwiththerighttools。

&owledge。Knowledgeofyourthsandlimitations，ahearenainwhichyouwishtoexcel。Butknowledgealoneisn'tenough。Kolywhenitisvalidatedbyexperiehevalidityofwhatwethinkorbelievebyputtioactualpradgatheringdataorfeedbatheexperiehefeedbackispositive，weassumeourtheoriesaredactagly。Ifthefeedbaegative，theboldamonguswilladjustourcourse，whilethemoretimidoftenallowtheivefeedbacold。

begainedbyknowiandingalyapplyingthefollowingformulasandfactors：

（1）Knowledge+ExperieiveFeedbafidence。

（2）Positivefeedbasues。

（3）Suesaretheresultoftpradrepeatedattempts。

（4）Repeatedattemptsarepossibleonlywhenwebelievewewilleventuallysucceed。

Theformulaseemstosaythatwemustbelieveinourabilitytosucceedbeforeerienysemblanceofsudthatistrue。That'swherethekoftheesin，andwhyitisthefirstequationintheformula。Beforewebelievewewillsucceedwithmadea，wemusthavesomekowhatsutailsandwhatstrengthsandabilitieswebringtothemix。Wemustalsokhabout"failure"。

Failureisofattemptingtoachieveagoalandfallingshortofthemark。Failureoweallowfallingshortofthemarktocauseust。Actually，thereareonlytwowaystofail。（1）Giveupbefoalyoureallywantor（2）ueonapaththatiswrongforyoubeadeawroiallyaheerroneouschoiceistheostaywith。

Suppose，forexample，yougotintoyourdiafriendatanunfamiliarlo。Yougetturnedarouherea。

Infailureformulanumberoneyoudiscoveryouarelostaocorrectyourcourse。However，youaretoofaroffcourseforjustoogetyoubatraakeaionandahreeorfoursyoudecideyouwillofindyourway，soyougiveup，parkyoureverreachyourdestination。

Infailureformulawoyoudecidethateventhoughyoumadeawrongturn，youmuststickwithitbeakeaneweanyoufailedwheheihatgotyoulost。Soyouuedroad，knowingit&#，butrefusierationbecauseyou'vealreadymadeachoice，hitmaybe。

Bothsariossouyabsurdinthattext，buttheworldisfullofpeoplewhogiveupandquitbeftheirgoal，andwhostaywithbadchoigaftertheyhavediscoveredtheyarebad。

Toensuresuustbewillingtoalteryourdkeepalteringit，andtainandagain，asmaakes，toreachyourdestinatioheryoureaotwilldependonyourbeliefinyourabilitytoeventuallyarrive，andthatbringsusbacktotheula。

&ultimatelyknowingyourselfandyourabilities，andknowinghowtousethemmosteffectively。Ile-bustleoftoday'sworld，wesometimesfettotakeathhlookatourmostvaluableasset—ourselves。Onlywithself-awarenessaandiobelieveinourabilitytofisolutionandtoarriveatoals。