郁闷就像一种传染病,人们往往对郁闷的人退避三舍。他们很快也会感到孤独、痛苦和难过。但是,有一种看似简单的治疗方法,虽然乍看似乎有些荒谬,如果你觉得不快乐,就假装快乐吧!
这个方法很管用,不久你就会发现,自己会吸引他人,而不是令人反感。你拥有一个以自我为中心的、日趋宽广的友好交际圈。这会是多么有益的事。
于是,假装的快乐就成为事实。你掌握了平和心境的秘诀,并且,在愉悦他人的过程中,自己也变得忘乎所以。
一旦意识到,保持快乐的心境是一种责任,并形成了习惯,它就能开启秘密花园的大门,那里云集着无数满怀感激的朋友。
记忆填空
1。Thereisno_______definitionoftheiness。Happypeoplearehappyforallsortsof_______。The_______ishorphysicalwell-being,sindbeggars,invalidsandso-calledfailuresthatareextremelyhappy。
2。Befyouwill_______thatinsteadpeople,youattractthem。Youdiscover_______deeplyrewardingitistobetheterofwiderandwidercirclesofgood_______。
3。Being_______,oisrealizedasa_______aablishedasahabit,opensdoorsintounimaginablegardehgratefulfriends。
佳句翻译
1。快乐的理由成千上万,而关键并不在于财富或健康。
2。保持快乐的心境是一种成就,是灵魂和性格的升华。
3。不久你就会发现,自己会吸引他人,而不是令人反感。
短语应用
1。。。。itcausespeopletoshrinkawayfromthesuffer。
awayfrom:离开;远离;不在
2。Befyouwillfindthatinsteadpeople。。。
bef:不久以后;很快;不久
快乐不必认真
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