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第28章 以爱之名 1（第3页）

1。请在你们彼此的世界中保留一些空间，好让空中的风在你们之间舞蹈。

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2。彼此相爱，但不要让爱成为束缚。

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3。橡树和松柏也不能在彼此的阴影下生长。

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短语应用

&hestringsofalutearealoheyquiverwiththesamemusic。

evenas：正如；正当

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2。Forthepillarsofthetemplestandapart。。。

standapart：站开；离开

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婚姻的最佳境界

MakingMarriagetheBestItBe

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&wokindses，”saysRichardExley，evaandauthor。“Badmarriagesandhardmarriages。”

Thinkaboutit：Weddingstakemenandwomenfrroundsaimesoppositetemperaments，withvariousaicexpes，aher。Theresult？Oftenfliger，disappoiandpain。There’shatmarriageishardorthatanymarriagegobad。Butbadmarriagesbemadebetter。Itjusttakesalotofwork。

MarriageAsWeKoBe

RaymondandIlearnedhebealmostimmediately—Istartedmedicalschooljustthreemonthsafter。Myclassschedule，tstudyingandicalrotatioimetogetherandstrainedmarriage。TheadditionofourfirstpouressofresidenweassumedlifewouldbeeasyifIpraagroupwithsharedcall。

&wodtwo—yes，wehadanother—weredemanding。Wewerebusywithdshort-termmissiontrips，andthreeofourparehin10years。Lifetookatollonusasindividualsandasacouple；everythiimeahaionship。

Wereadseveralexarriagewritteedandknowledgeableauthorities。Eaedexactlyrongandhowtofixit。Butwhehepriopractice，we’dgetaheadonlyalittlebefotstuthesameoldpatterimewetriedahardertobeginagain。

&uhRaymondaheotherdidn’thearoruaorfelt。Therewaslittleovertflict，yetlittleemotionalintimacy。Issueswentunresolved，asdider，whichledtoitment。Thoughwewerebothittedte，itlackeditsinalpassioainit。

Buthow？

MarriageAsWeHopedItCouldBe

WefoundanaendedaMedical&Deyce。Drs。Alanandelsoheproblemsphysis’marriagesfaddescribedRegehegretreattheyearAspen，Colo。Itsouweneeded，so。Thefirstdatethatfitourschedulewaseightmonthsaway。EventhoughIdoubtedthose10dayswouldgeourrelationship，IthoughtavaColoradocouldbefunandrelaxingawouldhelp。

&includedgroupsessionsahasindividualsandasacouple。Theotherattendeeswereveryial；weallwerethereforsimilarreasons，soospeakfreelyabouthisorherproblems。Everyoneortiveanddcamaraderiedevelopedquickly。

TheNelsohe"threeuni，flictresolutionandent—andeeandfamilyourfirstprioritiesinsteadofallowingourworktotakeoverourschedules。Marriagehemotioimacy，theyexplained，aafflecteitheroyusuallyoccursbecausespouseslookawayfromeachothertohavetheseimeffulversationandsexualrelationswillnothappenregularlyunlessacoupleplansforthem。AsAlanemphasized，“Ifyanaffair，youwouldfindwaystobetogether。”