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第36章 打开成功之门的钥匙Your Key to Certain Success2（第1页）

第36章打开成功之门的钥匙YourKeytoSuccess（2）

Theformulaseemstosaythatwemustbelieveinourabilitytosucceedbeforeerienysemblanceofsudthatistrue。That’swherethekoftheesin，andwhyitisthefirstequationintheformula。Beforewebelievewewillsucceedwithmadea，wemusthavesomekowhatsutailsandwhatstrengthsandabilitieswebringtothemix。Wemustalsokhabout“failure”。

Failureisofattemptingtoachieveagoalandfallingshortofthemark。Failureoweallowfallingshortofthemarktocauseust。Actually，thereareonlytwowaystofail。Giveupbefoalyoureallywantorueonapaththatiswrongforyoubeadeawroiallyaheerroneouschoiceistheostaywith。

Suppose，forexample，yougotintoyourdiafriendatanunfamiliarlo。Yougetturnedarouherea。Infailureformulanumberoneyoudiscoveryouarelostaocorrectyourcourse。However，youaretoofaroffcourseforjustoogetyoubatraakeaionaerthreeorfoursyoudecideyouwillofindyourway，soyougiveup，parkyoureverreachyourdestination。

Infailureformulawoyoudecidethateventhoughyoumadeawrongturn，youmuststickwithitbeakeaneweanyoufailedwheheihatgotyoulost。Soyouuedroad，knowingit’swrtomakeaionbecauseyou’vealreadymadeachoice，hitmaybe。

Bothsariossouyabsurdinthattext，buttheworldisfullofpeoplewhogiveupandquitbeftheirgoal，andwhostaywithbadchoigaftertheyhavediscoveredtheyarebad。

Toensuresuustbewillingtoalteryourdkeepalteringit，andtainandagain，asmaakes，toreachyourdestiheryoureaotwilldependonyourbeliefinyourabilitytoeventuallyarrive，andthatbringsusbacktotheula。

&ultimatelyknowingyourselfandyourabilities，andknowinghowtousethemmosteffethehustle-bustleoftoday’sworld，wesometimesfettotakeathhlookatourmostvaluableasset-ourselves。Onlywithself-awarenessaandiobelieveinourabilitytofisolutionandtoarriveatoals。

Peoplewhodon’tknowthemselvesareeasilyside-tracked。Theyhavenowell-definedpersonalboundariesaerofpower。Athhandaccurateself-assessmentprovidethepassweayontrack。Withoutaterofpoersonalbuideus，thereisnowayweachieveoalsbecausethereisnowaytoknowforsurewhatoalsare，orshouldbe。

Happy，tered，well-directedpeoplearepeople，ngandhohepeoplewhohavethebasipthiopersistinpursuihesearethepeoplewhosucceed。Theysucceedbecauseeveryachievedgoaliheirfaithiytosuderygreaterahings。Thehappyresultisahighdegreeofself-d，withsuffitself-ce，successis。