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第22章 友谊之树常青（第2页）
JessidJoycewerebestfriendsinjuheydidalmtogether。TheeramisuandioppedtalkingtoJessiorethahs，JoycerefusedtotalktoJessiswerher;Duringthattime，Ifoundoutortantfriendshewas，"Jessicasays，"I'teveewhenIwasstudying，ljustthoughtabouthowtomendourfriendship。"
&semester，Jessicatriedagain。Thistime，Joycewaswillingtoworkitout。Ittooksometimea，butthefriendship>
Mostofushavesufferedthepainofbrokenfriendships。Butthegoodhatmostfriendshipsded。
OxfordprofessorMichaelArgylereisheda15-yearstudythatexploredlehappy。Whatdidhefiohappinessishavingoionshipaworkoffrieudiesshowthatoursoeakeushealthieraostress。Maintaininglong-lastihyfriendshipisworththeeffort！
Ifthere'sabrokenfriendshipyou'dliketomend，trythefollo>
Giveyourfrieofthedoubt。
It'seasytoassumetheworst。Butifafriendhashurtyou，hemaynotevenrealizehe'sdoneso。
Matt，anAmeridoctoralstudewofriendshipsbrokenbyhurtfulwords。Bothrelatioerhealed。
"It'sprobablytruethatifsomeosyou，theyshouldhavek;Mattsays，"butthefactisweareallhumahingsup。Youogivepeoplethebehedoubtbecauseyouwill，aswell。"
&iativetouhyourfriend。
Ifyou'vebeenhurt，yourinstinctisprobablytopullarotectyourself。Butifyoudothis，thefriendshipwilllikelydie。
"You，"says20-year-oldJamie，whohasrestoredseveralbrokenfriendships，"Friebrokeislost。Bothfrieoreaddemoheyaretrustworthy。"
&hefirsttoapologize。
Evenifyouwerehurt，apoly。
Giveupyhttht。Otherwisethefli'tbefotten，asitshouldbe。
Walkthroughtheflicttogether。
Startbytryihingsfromyourfriend'spoialkabouttheproblemsopenlybutkindly。Atfirst，Jessi'tuandwhyJoycestoppedtalkihenJoyallyexplaiJessica'steasingbotheredher。"Ifinallyfoundoutshewasaeasedherinfrontoftheboysinourclass。"Jessied。Jessiothieasingandthoughtitshouldn'tbotherJoyce。ButtedthatitwasembarrassingtoJoyce，shestopped。Thentheirfriendshipcouldheal。
Niichellehadbeefriendssincepreschool。Butinichellesuddenlypulledaway。"Wedidn'ttalktoeachotherforawhile，theorecile，"Nicolesays，"Butwe'rejustpoliteaow。"
It'snormalforfriendshipstoge。Oftedriftapart。Problemsewheriestohangoherfriesgo。
Ifyourfriendisn'twillingtsout，acdmoveon。Butifyouareabletorecile，you'llhaveafriendshipthat'stried-and-true！
